When a Loved One Passes Far from Home
The place where a loved one passes may not be where the family wants the funeral, burial, or cremation. You may need to coordinate care, transportation, paperwork, and one or more funeral homes. You don’t have to figure out every step at once.
Find out where the person is, decide where the family wants final arrangements, and ask who will coordinate the transportation between them. The providers involved can usually coordinate the transfer, so you don’t have to arrange every part yourself.
The basic path
- Where the death occurred
- Local care and coordination
- Transportation
- Receiving funeral home
- Final arrangements
First: who do I call?
It depends on where and how the death happened: a hospital, hospice, care facility, private home, hotel, or public place. The people and authorities there help decide what happens next, and local rules apply. See the first 24 hours after a death.
The key decision: where should the person go?
For example, someone who lives in Utah passes away while visiting Arizona, and the family wants the funeral and burial in Utah. The family may then work with a provider where the death occurred and a funeral home in Utah, and the two coordinate the transfer.
Do I need two funeral homes?
Not always. Sometimes one funeral home coordinates everything. In other cases, both are involved:
Where the person died
- Care and preparation for transportation
- Local paperwork and coordination
Where arrangements happen
- Receives the person
- Funeral or memorial, burial or cremation, cemetery arrangements
“Can your funeral home coordinate the transportation and receiving for us, or will we need to work with another provider?”
Transportation may be coordinated by either funeral home or a specialized transportation provider, by vehicle or, in some cases, by air. For what “receiving” and “forwarding” mean, see transportation, receiving, and forwarding.
If the death occurred in another state
Requirements can vary with the state where the death occurred, the state the person is going to, the circumstances, the providers, and how the person will travel. There may be documents, permits, or authorizations. The funeral home or transportation provider coordinating the transfer should tell you which apply.
If the death occurred outside the United States
An international death can involve local authorities, a funeral home in that country and one in the U.S., airlines, and the U.S. embassy or consulate. According to the U.S. Department of State:
- Help is available
- U.S. consular officers can assist the family, share information about local burial and shipping remains, and provide a list of local funeral homes.
- Local law applies
- Burial or cremation must follow U.S. and foreign law. Options depend on the country’s facilities and customs.
- Costs are the family’s
- The State Department can’t pay to return remains, but it can help the family send instructions and private funds.
- Paperwork takes time
- Several documents are generally needed to bring someone home. A Consular Report of Death, often needed for insurance and estate matters, takes about four to six months, depending on the country.
U.S. Department of State help line for citizens abroad: 1-888-407-4747 from the U.S. and Canada, or +1-202-501-4444 from anywhere else. You can also contact the nearest U.S. embassy or consulate. More at travel.state.gov.
What does repatriation of remains mean?
Repatriation generally means bringing a person who has died back to their home country, or to another country, for final arrangements. You may hear it from funeral homes, travel insurers, or specialized transportation providers, especially after a death abroad.
What it can cost, and what paperwork may be involved
- Distance and airline or specialized transport
- Forwarding and receiving services
- Services from two funeral homes
- Required documents or shipping containers
- Services at both ends
- A death certificate
- Transportation documents and permits
- Authorization forms and identification
- Airline or shipping documents
- Whatever the receiving provider requires
There’s no single average cost. Ask for a complete written estimate showing which provider charges for which service. For published Utah forwarding and receiving prices, see transportation, receiving, and forwarding. See also additional costs families may miss.
If you’re dealing with this right now
- Find out where the person is, and who is caring for them.
- Tell that provider where the family wants final arrangements.
- Ask who will coordinate transportation, and which funeral home will receive the person.
- Ask which documents are required, and who contacts the receiving provider.
- Get expected costs and responsibilities in writing.
- Leave later decisions for later. See what can wait.
“Who is coordinating the transportation, who will receive the person, and what will our family be responsible for arranging and paying for?”
Common questions
What if someone dies while traveling?
Can someone be brought back to Utah?
Who pays for transportation?
What if someone dies outside the United States?
Ready to see how these choices apply to your situation?
Your Wayfinder Plan can help organize the options you’re considering and give you a clearer picture of what to ask and compare.
Build My Wayfinder Plan- Deaths abroad, consular help, costs, and documents: U.S. Department of State, Death (updated August 11, 2025). Phone numbers: State Department, Help Abroad.
- Bringing remains into the U.S.: CDC, Importation of Human Remains.
- Forwarding and receiving on price lists: FTC, Funeral Rule Price List Essentials.
Requirements vary by state, country, carrier, and provider. This page is general information, not legal advice.